House Hunting in Riyadh: Things To Check Before Signing That Lease Contract

Okay, so we've been combing Riyadh for the rental home of our dreams and we think we found, The One. Okay, reality check. Probably not our dream home, but at least a comfortable place to live in here in Riyadh. But before we jumped in and signed the contract, we had to make sure that everything was going to be acceptable by turnover. After all who doesn't want to come home to a nice and cozy place, right? 

We've compiled a list of things you might want to consider when choosing your new home. Some of these may be self-explanatory but sometimes we get carried away by how the flat looks and we overlook the important things. Ready? Let's get crackin'!

Phone/Internet 

Hubby and I both depend on our computers for work. Suffice it to say that we cannot survive without internet access. Hubby had to make sure that our new flat could be fitted with an STC line and installed with an internet line or a fiber optic cable. In case, you know, we'll need 40mbps of internet at home. LOL.

Anyway, he called STC and they asked if the building already had an "STC Cabinet". Look for a metal STC sign around the building wall. If the building doesn't have an STC cabinet it will take longer for you to get a line. Ours took only 2 days to install because it was already STC-ready. Also if you plan to upgrade to a fiber optic line, check for the letters "FTTH" on the second row.

Water Pressure

The flat we found was nice to look at but when hubby came back to check, it turns out that the tap's water pressure was really low. So we asked to building owner to repair it first. Trickling water is a deal breaker if you live three floors up.

Cracks on the Wall or Ceiling Damages

When a building is new, sometimes it needs to "settle" first. This is very common for places that experience extreme temperatures as it causes the building materials to expand and contract before finally setting in. If it's just hair line cracks, that's normal and easy to repair. But if these are wide cracks that re-crack after repair, it may indicate structural issues with the building. You have to take note of these because you might be held responsible for damages when the time comes to move out.

Painting

Are you allowed to paint the wall? Do you really need to paint the wall? If you do, be prepared to work on it over the entire weekend. Do this at least a week before you move your things in as some paint smell can be really harsh. Talk to paint sellers to determine the right kind of paint for your needs and lifestyle. 

Air Conditioning

Some buildings are built with big rectangular holes ready for window type A/C installation. But some flats are built with split-type A/Cs in mind, in which case there are small built-in holes ready. Most of the time you won't have a choice in this matter and you won't be allowed to tear down the wall, so take note of this and weigh in your options. Split A/Cs are much more expensive than window-type A/Cs and hiring someone to install these units will set you back around 200-300 SAR/per A/C unit.

Kitchen

Is the flat outfitted with a built-in kitchen? That's great! If not, buying second hand kitchen cabinets at Haraj would cost around 1000 SAR plus installation charges. New kitchen cabinets costs around 1700 SAR - 3000 SAR including installation. The price depends on the kitchen measurements and you can customize the cabinets to suit your needs. You can also choose the colors of marble counter top and choose between an aluminum metal sink or a marble sink. You might also chance upon expats selling their kitchen cabinets but you'll have to find your own carpenter/plumber to install it. IKEA kitchens cabinets are beautiful but they also cost much more. But if you can splurge, why not. Hehehe. You can check out their website here: http://www.ikea.com/sa/en/

One of the dainty kitchens we found on our house hunting escapades

Tiled or Carpeted

Some units are fitted with beautiful tiles and this allows you to go carpet-free. Carpets on the other hand are good insulation and can maintain the room's temperature during Riyadh's harsh winter. Should you decide to install carpets it will set you back anywhere from 15 SAR to 100 SAR per square meter, depending on the quality. 

Electric and Water Bills

Check if the flat has its own electric and water meters. Some buildings do not have individual meters and you might end up splitting the electricity bill with 2 or more flats. Are you going to be comfortable with that? Different areas and buildings also charge differently. Don't forget to check if all the rooms have enough electric outlets.

Location

Is the neighborhood safe? Are there enough parking spaces? Is the building close to a bakala or grocer that sells drinking water and other stuff you might need? How close do you need to be to a Mosque?

The Contract

If you're ready to take the plunge, check the contract first before paying the Aqari Fee, as this fee is usually non-refundable and will cost around 500-1000 SAR. The contract will usually state who will be responsible for repairs so make sure that any problem/solution will be discussed before you sign the contract. Some building owners do not offer maintenance service and you'll have to shoulder the cost of repairs, so you have to make sure that everything is in tiptop shape prior to move in.

Tips 

It's much better if you look for a house with your spouse because you'll be able to decide right away whether a flat is acceptable or not. However, make sure that you are on the same page with what you expect to rent, your budget and what you can compromise. Also, if you really like a flat don't wait too long because it might not be available the next time you come back. Don't forget to bring water as you'll be in and out of your car a lot while you scout for flats.

While house hunting and choosing a flat can be tedious and time consuming, don't be deterred. Try to make it an enjoyable experience by brainstorming, daydreaming and planning with your spouse. Try to be creative together. If your wife's not in the Kingdom yet, take videos and photos of the flats you scout and show it to her online.  Keyword here is Together.

The trend of finding your home online is becoming more and more popular in Saudi. Websites like Lamudi and ERA are for those of us interested in renting or buying apartments, villas, lands, office space or even a piece of land. Results will show photos of the properties and other contact details of the seller. Oh and they have listings in both Arabic and English, so locals and expats can use them. It`s a good way to check your options before getting in the car and start running around from a place to another without having a clue about the property you're visiting.

Good Luck and Happy Hunting!

Sampaguita Pride

How To Survive The Recruitment Process in the Philippines

aka The Process You Go Through When You Apply and Get a Job In Saudi Arabia 

aka What The Recruitment Agencies in the Philippines Put You Through 

aka Probably One of the Most Frustrating Moments in your Life 

I recently went through the recruitment process in the Philippines and like the true blue OC (takot sa unknown) that I am, I researched online on how processes like this go. And guess what I found out? Nothing. Nothing substantial. I mean there are features, news, and articles about it but there's no information that gives you direct answers. You know why? Because there is no direct answer. Every recruitment agency in the Philippines has their own processes they would want you to go through. But in my opinion, the whole formula is actually a bit simple. It goes something like this: 

1. Application 

2. Interview 

3. Acceptance 

4. Medical 

5. Government Stuff 

6. Orientation 

7. Flight 

Simple, yes? If only it is that easy. It gets complicated along the way, you see. There are a lot of obstacles you'll be facing. I'm telling you now that nothing is a walk in the park so you will be needing patience and more patience when you're at it. But that's why The Pink Tarha is here, we'll try to make your life easier by providing this guide so that you know, more or less, what constitutes your decision to go abroad, particularly going to Saudi Arabia *cough*. It is a tough choice but some hard decisions are needed to be made for whatever huge reason you have.

A huge decision. Don't rush.

First and foremost, the decision of working abroad and leaving your family and your comfort zone behind is difficult. It will unhinge you. It will scare the crap out of you, especially when your destination is in the Middle East. I'm not trying to scare you by the way. I'm just preparing you for the changes. So you really need to think hard if it's the right thing for you. While most of us think that going abroad will make life better, it's pretty obvious nowadays that it's not always the case. 

When friends ask me if it's okay to go abroad, I always tell them to see it like this: If you have a job in the Philippines that pays you well enough to provide for your family and have a bit of savings too, then don't. You see, it's not always about the money; it's not always about the things you need to provide or the dream of owning this and that. Sometimes, you have to cherish what you already have. You have to cherish the moments of being together because being apart can cause more problems than you can ever imagine. I was already attending my PDOS when my seatmate whose flight was scheduled two days from that day was still having second thoughts. If you're not sure (aka hindi buo ang loob mo), don't go. 

For those who decided to take a risk... Now, you need to find good agency. I didn't have to go through a lot of agencies in the Philippines to look for mine. I have an unusual case but the bottomline is, I processed my papers through the LBS International Recruitment in Kalaw, Manila. I don't know a lot of agencies in the Philippines (as a matter of fact, I only know of LBS and Royal Crown) and I don't have a lot of experience in dealing with agencies but I can truly say that I didn't have a horror story to share when it comes to LBS. I mean, the process went smoothly as far as I am concerned. Here are the list of agencies licensed by the POEA: http://www.workabroad.ph/list_all_jobs.php?by_what=agency (the link in the POEA site is not working). Avoid illegal recruiters! The rule of the thumb: if it's too good to be true, then it probably is. Research as much as you can about the agency before you commit. What is Google for?! 

The basic required documents are the following: 

1. Updated and comprehensive resume/CV 

2. Pictures (most of the time, 2x2) 

3. Valid Passport (renew your passport, if needed) 

4. NBI Clearance - (apply online before going to the NBI offices) 

5. Certificates of Employment 

6. Reference Letters (from supervisors) 

7. College Diploma (certified by CHED) or High School Diploma (whichever is your highest attainment) 

8. Transcript of Records, Certificate of Graduation *School documents should be authenticated (with red ribbon). 

9. Letter of No Objection (ex-Saudi workers know of this) 

10. Copy of final exit (for ex-Saudi workers also) 

There will be a few more documents you need, depending on the position you are applying for. For example, certificates of those who passed their licensure exams for nurses, accountants, etc. From there, you need to submit all these documents to the agency. You can apply through their online sites. Sometimes, walk-ins are also welcome. They usually schedule you for interview with the employers, either personally (when the employers visit the Philippines) or online (via Skype). When you're already accepted and your salary has been negotiated, that's the time you'll be scheduled for medical exams.

WORD.

I braced myself for the medical exam because I've heard a lot of bad experiences with regards to clinics that conduct medical exams for would-be OFWs. And while I did not encounter anything horrible, I would say that if most of us are healthy before we went to our medical, we'll already be sick when we get out of it! The long lines, rude employees, the narrow and lack of space, the crowd, the confusing steps... oh my gahd!!! Seriously, I cannot fathom how they can let people go through this mess of a system! 

For my medical, I went to Medisense Clinic, a few steps away from the agency. They told me to go as early as 6:00 in the morning and it was a good thing that I listened because I was one of the first persons in line. After 6:30, the line was already snaking its way down to the next block. The clinic opened around 8:00AM and we rushed inside. In fairness, we were given a list to follow. I was always the first one called when it came to the various tests. 

Here is the list of exams they'll be doing: 

1. Laboratory (blood work, stool, urine) 

2. Chest X-ray 

3. Nurse Station (weight, height, BP, etc.) 

4. Physical Exam (where you meet a doctor) 

5. Eyes, Ears, Nose (ECG for 40 years old and above) 

6. Dental 

7. Psychological Exam (written) 

It is always a good thing to be early because you'll be on fasting mode so you don't want the fasting period to elapse rendering your sacrifice invalid. Also, you'll finish early. I was done by 11:00 AM. I suggest you go on a diet mode a week or so before your scheduled medical exam. Also, don't be nervous especially when meeting the doctor because if you are, you'll probably be diagnosed with tachycardia, a condition where your heart rate is exceeding the normal rate. 

Results can be known 2-3 days after the exam. Some clinics forward them to the agencies but you can also ask for the result personally in the clinic. Now, there will be times that some of the results will make you UNFIT TO WORK. There are a lot of reasons for this but the common ones are high blood sugar, lung scar, etc. You are free to get a second opinion on other clinics. You don't have to go back to the same clinic, try other GAMCA-accredited clinics (GCC Approved Medical Centers Association) or your trusted health provider. You can take a week to stabilize whatever it is that is abnormal in your result. The doctor might recommend some medicines to help you. When the clinics tell you something that looks doubtful, be assertive and smart about it!

When you're going through the medical rounds.

I have a friend who underwent the same process as I did who forgot her eyeglasses at home during the medical exam. The optometrist was trying to force her to buy a new pair. She was threatening not to sign the certificate if she didn't. Now, it's pretty obvious that it's quite a bit of a scam because why would she buy a new one when she has a pair of her own? She can just go back and present the eyeglasses that she has. When I went to the dental part of my medical exam, the dentist was forcing me to get fillings before she signs the certificate. The price was a bit more expensive. I told her I have my own dentist and I'll just have to go back to the clinic and bring proof. When I submitted my form to the nurse, she told me that I don't have to worry about the dental as long as the agency doesn't request for it. So uhmn, why force me to get fillings done when it's not important to my application? If I fell for the bait, I would have spend more. 

After you get the FIT TO WORK paper, you go back to the agency and fill up and sign forms. From then on, they'll be the ones in charge of your papers. You need to submit your passport to them (so no international traveling for the time being) and they'll process your POEA, OWWA, Philhealth, and PAG-IBIG stuff. I paid the agency P3,000 for these.

If you think that the medical is done and over with (*insert evil laugh here*), you're wrong. It depends on the company/hospital you're going to, you will be required to get vaccines, antibody profiling, and a PPD test. For all these, I was referred to the Physician's Diagnostic Clinic in UN Avenue. I can honestly say that this part of my recruitment process is the most difficult, if not the most kasumpa-sumpa. LOL. This is where I literally got sick during and after the ordeal of waiting a few hours just to pay for my antibody and PPD test (they only have 1 cashier working!). There were so many people! I wonder how the building can take so many at a time! It was chaotic and warm and noisy. My friend who went there for the full medical exam had to be there by 5:00AM! The lines outside are so long you'd think Daniel Padilla is having a concert! 

Medical Fees (rounded up):

P3,200 (full medical fee)

P2,750 (antibody profile + PPD test)

P1,500 (MMRV vaccine)

P600 (Varicella Vaccine)

Okay, so after the grueling medical exam part, you'll have to go for PDOS or the infamous Pre-Departure Orientation Seminar (pay P100). As you can see, this entry is over a mile long already that's why I reserved another entry for the PDOS. Especially since it really deserves a SPECIAL place in the minds of OFWs. That's sarcastic by the way. Anyway... 

The agency will inform you of an orientation session with them. The orientation in LBS was a good one. They were organized and their staff knows what they were doing. They will give a run through of the airport experience and the rules in the country you're going to. They will give you the documents you'll be needing to present in the airport, the immigration both in Manila and your destination, and they'll be wishing you good luck. READ all the documents before signing! 

Ladies need to take a pregnancy exam (pay P100) again before leaving so make sure you're not pregnant or else, every thing you've worked hard for in going abroad will be all for nothing (unless you really want to get pregnant and abort your trip then Congratulations!). 

I spent more or less P15,000 for all these. Add the fares from our house in Pasig to Manila (I re-learned the art of commuting) and food, the overall cost balloons to around P20,000. Well, it's not their fault I live in Pasig. Haha. Then there is the matter of a placement fee... here's a guide for you on what it is and what is the legal amount for one. It's better if you find an agency that has "no placement fee." (I didn't pay any placement fee in LBS.) 

The airport process is pretty much a breeze when you already know the basics (if you have companions from the same agency who are flying on the same sched, it will be good to be in contact with them... unless they're super late then don't wait). You need to present your OEC to the POEA/OWWA counter and they'll just validate it. Go to the counter of your airlines and get your boarding pass. You are not going to pay for the terminal fee. Go to the OFW lane at the immigration, pass another scanning machine, and voila, you're in the boarding gate. Several hours after, you'll reach your country of destination. 

Yes it will, in different directions and results.

For those going to Saudi Arabia, the immigration officers are more friendly now (at least that's my observation). You will have to line up in the "newbie" lane. They will take a photo of you (seriously, it doesn't hurt to smile!) and scan your fingerprints. After that, go outside the immigration area and wait for your baggage. If you're a woman, then someone (a representative or your employer) will be coming to fetch you. If you're a man, then most likely, you get your luggage, go through a scanner, and exit at the arrival doors. Someone will be waiting for you there. Most probably the driver of your company bus/vehicle.

After that, AHLAN WASALAN to the Middle East!!! Good luck in your journey and life abroad. If you survived the recruitment process then you'll most probably survive living and working in the Middle East. It takes patience and guts. It is after all, a survival of the fittest. ;) ~ Sundrenched

How To Wear The Pink Tarha, Literally (And World Hijab Day!)

Hello, Riyadhizens! It's me, Sampaguita Pride! Remember me? Hehe. It's been quite a while since I last posted anything for the blog and I just want to say that I'm really happy to be writing again. I missed you all! Oh, I'm still here in the Philippines, but I just had to share this with you. As a Pink Tarha, how can I not write about this? :)

February 1 is World Hijab Day! It is a special day where Muslim ladies and non-Muslim ladies alike, wear a hijab to promote awareness and understanding of why Muslim women wear their hijab. It also aims to enlighten people that the hijab is not a form of oppression for Muslim women. According to BBC News, the movement was initiated by Nazma Khan from the US and is observed in more than 50 countries across the globe. You can read more about World Hijab Day and stories of Hijabis on their website: worldhijabday.com

Let me just clarify that this is not an Islamic holiday, but rather a worldwide effort to shed positive light about the Hijab and to promote peace and understanding. But whatever our beliefs may be, let's take a moment to appreciate the bright and courageous women under the veil. Let us not forget that underneath the Hijab is a woman, a human being, who deserves respect and courtesy regardless of her religion and beliefs. Just like everyone else. Don't let appearances alienate us from one another. Let us support diversity. As the saying goes, Don't be an Angry Bird. :))

For those who live in Saudi Arabia, we all know that it's customary to wear the Abaya and Tarha in public even if you're not a Muslim. It's part of the package of living and working in Saudi Arabia. Back then, I didn't know how to wear the Tarha. I just draped it around my head when I was told to cover my hair. I felt that it was just something that I had to do to comply. But deep down, I knew it had its benefits. Plus, I always thought that the tarhas worn by some Syrian and Jordanian ladies were really pretty. 

Ironically, I learned to wear the hijab when I stayed here in Manila and embraced Islam. Now I wear my hijab or Tarha on a regular basis. When I first wore the hijab here in the Philippines, I immediately noticed that men would promptly lower their gaze or look away. Random people would greet me, "Asalamu' Alaykum", even non-Muslims. When I ask for directions, people would take the time to answer me and remind me to be careful and be safe. Isn't that wonderful?

The Hijab is not just a piece of cloth. It is the wholesome way that a woman presents herself to others, in her thoughts, attitude, action and speech. Wearing the hijab became a personal reminder for me to moderate how I behave in public. I try to speak softly and be more patient with people around me.

So in support of World Hijab Day, I want to share a simple tutorial on how to wrap your Hijab or Tarha. It's really simple and pretty.

Me wearing a pink hijab!

There are a lot of ways to wear the hijab but this is my favorite. I normally wear an inner hijab bonnet or "ninja" inner but this is optional. In fact, you can even wear it without pins and brooches. I use pins because I like my hijabs securely fastened to my inner bonnets. This way, I don't have to keep adjusting my Hijab in the middle of the day. But I have heard of mommies veering away from hijab pins, for safety reasons. :)

Here's what I use for this hijab style:

What you need.

This style is easy and can be done in just 3 steps but I made a detailed tutorial for those who are completely new to this. (I still can't believe I'm making a tutorial, hahaha!) Here goes my first ever tutorial:

Step 1: Tie your hair into a bun and wear an inner hijab or a bonnet.

Step 2: Fold your rectangle scarf or pashmina so that it's 2/3 of its actual width.

Step 3: Put it on your head, folded side facing out. Make sure that one end is shorter than the other. For me, the shorter end is usually on the left. But you can choose whichever side you prefer. :)

Step 4: Pin the hijab in place using a safety pin or a no-snag pin.

Step 5: Pull the shorter end of the hijab up and over your head.

Step 6: Secure the shorter end on top with a small pin. Be careful not to hurt yourself.

Step 7: Now pull the longer end of your hijab across your chest.

Step 8: Pull the longer end up and over your head closer to your inner hijab. 

Step 9: Pin in place.

Step 10: Arrange the folds accordingly.

Step 11: Use a brooch or a regular pin to secure the hijab close.

Step 12: And you're done! Smile, it's charity! :)

Easy right? You can also check YouTube for tutorial on other variations and styles. Maybe you'll want to wear a pink hijab too just to show your support for World Hijab Day. If you do, don't forget to post it and tag us, okay? :)

I hope you liked this tutorial and thank you for reading our blog! :)

Much Love,
Sampaguita Pride

Top 5 Reasons Why Men Should Read The Pink Tarha

So there I was walking nonchalantly on an event when a woman suddenly came into my direct view and caught my attention and asked, "Pink Tarha ka diba?" (You are a Pink Tarha, right?) I normally get crazy shy during these kind of moments so I said Opo (Yes) in a whisper. The woman asked "Pwedeng mag-picture tayo?" Whoahhhh! Wait, wait. Is this some kind of a Punked! episode?! Hahaha! I wanted to hide under the table. The first thing on my mind was "Am I beautiful today?! Reputasyon ng Pink Tarha ang nakataya dito!" (It's The Pink Tarha's reputation on the line.) LOL!

Her husband, toting a camera, was with her so I and the woman (who I will not name here but really, she has my eternal gratitude) assumed that the husband would take our photo... but he handed the camera to a friend who was nearby and asked him to take our photo... the photo of the three of us with me in the middle. The woman looked at the husband and asked, "Kasama ka din?!" (You want to be in the picture too?) The husband laughed and said, "Syempre, reader din kaya ako!" (Of course, I'm a reader also.) I was supposed to burst out laughing but I maintained my simple smile (naks!) for the camera. I had a quick chat with the couple and said thanks after that. I was too shy to ask for a high five from the man and shout "You go, bro! You're the man!" after him. :P 

You cannot imagine how thankful we are to our readers!

It's very entertaining for us to know that men read The Pink Tarha. It's a given that most of our readers are women because our topics and status updates tend to sway their way but it gives us a different kind of high when we learn that the guys read us too. I mean, why would they?! Some of you guys might even be asking why should we?! Well, there are very VALID reasons why you should and here, let me help you in uncovering them.

1. Because you need to keep your bored wife unbored. So you had the opportunity to take your wife to Saudi Arabia but she finds herself bored. I don't know, maybe because commuting here is a problem, women driving is non-existent, persistent news of abuse and harassment are well, persistent... so she couldn't go out much. An unhappy wife makes a husband unhappy. So uncover all the possible means to keep your wife busy... and happy! First and foremost, give her the link to our blog, tell her to read our entries in making herself productive in the desert, and discuss the options afterwards. Now, if there's still no solution to your wife's boredom, tell her to message us. We reply and we welcome all kinds of questions so she just has someone to talk to (and someone to talk her out of this desert rut she's currently in). We tell you, she'll be happy in no time at all. Possible side effects would be spending too much time online and persistent nagging to go out to try out new restaurants and visit new shops. Don't say we didn't warn you! Also, unbored is not a real word.

In relation to reason number 1 is reason number 2... (for guys who already have their wives and children with them here in Saudi Arabia)...

2. Because your wife reads The Pink Tarha. And there is a need to relate to her. So you know what she is talking about. I think this is one of the main advantages you'd get from us. By reading The Pink Tarha, you'll know what they want or where they want to go next. Also, the next time they ask you to go somewhere in a random manner, you'll know who to blame and not spend your waking hour fighting with your wife for not telling you sooner. Also, the maps below our places/restos/shops entries can help you find your way faster. You know how most women are, right? One of these days, they will ask you to go at a place/store you haven't heard of and you'll wonder where they got that tip. And then, your wife will forget the directions on your way there and when that happens, you'll just go in circles. Eventually, you will blow your top off. So it's better to be ready yannow. Just in case. ;) 

Number 2 reason in simpler terms is Read The Pink Tarha so you can relate to your wife. Because you know, any additional reason to be closer to your wife is a winner in our books so go for it! 

For guys who don't have their families here or the single guys in general...

3. Because you need to be updated. Seriously guys, just because you're working hard for your families back home and toiling away in the heat of this unrelenting desert, you should be serious all the time. Don't you get tired of being serious and workaholic all the darn time? Have fun!!! (We mean clean fun, okay! No hanky-panky business over here.) You are entitled to some positive and good vibes and reading The Pink Tarha will give that to you (or we hope it does!). Also, our sale updates will tell you when and where to buy pasalubong for your families and friends back home. I swear there are some practical, relevant information in this blog that you can use in all aspects of life. Passport renewal? SSS contributions? Yup, we discusss these, ermn, serious stuff too you know. 

4. Because you have idle hours and you need to do something about those idle hours. Instead of wasting your time on nonsense websites, spend it on our blog! Haha! Reading The Pink Tarha blog is a good way to spend your time while waiting for your favorite teleserye. Oh yeah, you're not into teleseryes... right?!? Haha! Aminin. Or maybe you have nowhere to go to or no one to talk to or nothing to do during your day off. Maybe you want to laugh at the expense of another to tide your time away? Do it with The Pink Tarha. Go marvel at our ability to shop for hours and lie our way into thinking that it's only for "window shopping". Or wonder how we end up eating in restaurants all the time as if we don't know how to cook (uhmn me). Or find meaning into our unconditional love for shoes and travels. Or ask us any question too! (However, we do not accept any marriage proposals at this moment. LOL!)

5. Because isn't it obvious by now? We're funny (or we think we are). And you deserve a good laugh.

There are more reasons (wait for the second entry which might make more sense). For example, in certain highly unlikely random occasion, there would be that moment when your wife will stop someone in an event or in the mall and will ask you to take a photo with her/them. You need to know it's us. Or not. Haha! But who knows? Sometimes, we truly think that our lives here in Saudi Arabia is as random as we imagine it to be. Don't you? You need to be prepared. 

We always quip that real men not only wear pink, REAL MEN ALSO READ PINK. Because by reading The Pink Tarha, you become a man who understands women. And to us, that's the essence of being a real man. (Shucks, tell me where to sign up for a beauty pageant! I think I just gave an answer worthy of a crown! Hahaha!) ~ Sundrenched

PS. Girl friends, you need to forward and share this entry to your husbands! Pronto! ;)

Guide to Philippine Schools in Riyadh

So you've got your visa to sunny Riyadh (plus family visa too!)... but what about your kids? Will they be able to go to a DepEd accredited school? The answer is YES! There are currently a lot of Philippine Schools in Riyadh and other cities in the Kingdom. In fact, Eyecandy and I are proud graduates of Elite International School and International Philippine School in Riyadh. Laking Saudi talaga :)

(Photo credits: http://dexfamily.wordpress.com)

The first ever school in Riyadh is the International Philippine School in Riyadh (formerly the Philippine Embassy School in Riyadh). In the late 90's, other International Schools were established. As of press time, the schools that are still in operation in Riyadh are: 

     1. International Philippine School in Riyadh (IPSR)
     2. Second Philippine International School (SPIS)
     3. Elite International School (EIS)
     4. Riyadh International School (RIS)
     5. Future Generation Philippine International School (FGPIS)
     6. Al Danah International School (ADIS)
     7. Millenium International School (MIS)
     8. Al Taj International School (ATIS)
     9. Palm Crest International School (PCIS)
     10. Fawaq International School (FIS)

Majority of the Philippine schools are located around the Riyadh Military Hospital and Suleimaniah Area. It's like the U-belt of Pinoy Expats here. :))

Levels Offered
Most schools offer Pre-Elementary, Elementary and High School education, however some schools like IPSR offer Post-Secondary Courses such as Computer Science, Business Management and Liberal Arts. SPIS also offer IT Occupational Courses such as CISCO training courses and introductory computer courses.

What if you relocate to Saudi Arabia in the middle of the School Year? 

That's not a problem. Most of the Philippine schools will accept enrollees even in the middle of the school year, to help OFW's adjust to Saudi life faster. But they will need all of your child's school documents in compliance with DepEd regulations.

Documents that you MUST bring to enroll your child

The documents required for admission would depend on the grade level of your child, but here is a list of documents usually required to enroll your child here in Riyadh:

     1. Birth Certificate (Photocopy)
     2. Iqama of Parents (Photocopy)
     3. Passport of Parents (Photocopy)
     4. 6 pcs of colored 1x1 ID picture
     5. Student's Passport
     6. Original Report Card
     7. Form 137
     8. Honorable Dismissal from last school attended
     9. Certificate of Good Moral Character

  

Tuition Fees

Tuition Fees vary per school but generally the tuition rates are around 4000 - 4500 SR per year plus 500 SR miscellaneous fee. You can pay for this in lump, quarterly or monthly installment. There are also schools that offer graduated discounts for the next child.

For example, IPSR offers "graduated discount for the 2nd & 3rd siblings; whereas the 4th child enjoys 50% tuition fee discount and the 5th child is free from tuition fee." (IPSR website)

Scholarships

Again this depends if the school is actually offering a scholarship grant. For example, RIS offers scholarships and tuition fee deductibles for consistent top-notchers in class.

The Curriculum
Philippine schools in Riyadh follow the prescribed curriculum from DepEd. Your child will still be studying English, Math, Science, Araling Panlipunan or Sibika, Filipino, MAPE, THE and Computer. Most of the time, they will also be required to study Saudi History, Islamic Studies and Arabic Language, which are mandated by the Saudi Ministry of Education.

School Activities

Schools offer a wide range of extracurricular activities like Intramurals, Field Demonstrations during the schools' Foundation Week, Quizbees, Literary Contests, Science Congress and JS Promenades among others. Students may also join non-academic clubs, school newspapers, CAT, basketball and volleyball varsities and Student Council Organizations.

School Facilities and Services

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Most schools would have a Clinic, Science laboratory, AVR room, Computer room, Home Economics room, Bookstores and Canteen. Quadrangles are also used for school activities and ball games like basketball and volleyball. School bus service is also offered by most Philippine schools.

Tutoring
Some schools will offer tutoring service for children who are having a hard time coping with lessons. The rates vary per school but rates would be around 200 SR per subject.

Gender Segregation

In most schools, students are sectioned by gender and not by scholastic standing. This is also a directive from the Ministry of Education that boys and girls should not mix on campus. Usually, only the Elementary students are allowed to attend a mix gender classroom.

Classroom Size

The average number of students per class would be around 20-30 students. Some schools provide armchairs, while others provide desks and chairs for each student. Most rooms are air-conditioned and use white board instead of the traditional blackboards.

 
Well, there you have it. I think this covers most of the basic details about Philippine schools in Riyadh. We hope this post will prove helpful to our Kababayans who are planning to bring their children to Saudi Arabia. :)

All the best, 

Sampaguita Pride

How To Renew Your Passport in Riyadh

If there is only one ID a Filipino should have, it should be a passport. Not only is it one of the most recognized documents in the Philippines, it's also the most recognized ID in any part of the world. Don't get caught not having without a passport, much less an expired one. So, make sure you renew your passport on time. Please remember that traveling in most countries will require you to have a valid passport for 6 months. For example, your passport expires on December 25, 2011 and you're traveling to Japan today, they won't let you in the immigration because your passport is no longer valid for 6 months.

When I first went home for vacation in the Philippines, I was so excited and forgot to renew my passport months ahead. Good thing, it only took a month for me to receive my new one or else, I had to re-schedule every thing. My father, who doesn't really pay attention to these "trivial" things, didn't know his passport is expiring in two months and he had to travel to Pakistan for work. He had to ask the embassy for a passport extension, which will only be given with valid (business or emergency) reasons. He finally had his passport renewed and he waited a month or so to receive his new passport.

The Philippine Embassy in Riyadh has recently introduced a new appointment system for e-passports. You don't have to wait in line anymore and you'll be able to request specific dates and time. It would be less hassle for your work or everyday activities. Only renewals are accommodated on this new system. Lost passports and new passports for children will be entertained as walk-ins. The Consular Section will accommodate 120 applicants daily so it is a must to get your appointment. Wag pasaway! :P No appointment, no entry! no processing!

The following information is taken from the Press Release No. 74-2011 (24 August 2011) of the Philippine Embassy in Riyadh.

How to get an appointment to renew your passport
1. The new appointment system is free of charge and the applicants may enlist themselves directly by visiting the Philippine Embassy-Riyadh website at http://www.philembassy-riyadh.org/ and clicking on the E-Passport Online Appointment.
• Family applicants must indicate all the names of its members. Otherwise only one slot would be provided to them.
 
2. Applicant should make an appointment at least 3 days before his/her intended day of personal appearance in the Embassy.

3. Applicant can request an appointment date and time.

4. Applicant will be informed of the date and time of appointment.

5. If the appointment is not confirmed, the applicant must request for another appointment.

6. The applicant should be at the Embassy at least 15 minutes before the appointment for personal appearance.

7. Late comers will be entertained after finishing all applicants who came on time.

The Embassy is open Saturdays to Wednesdays from 8:00 am to 5:00 pm and Thursdays from 8:00 am to 12:00 noon except on regular Philippine and Saudi holidays.

Requirements for e-Passport renewal:
1. Personal appearance
2. Original old passport
3. Photocopy of old passport (data page only)
4. Duly accomplished passport application form that can be downloaded from the Embassy website: www.philembassy-riyadh.org or obtained from Window 1 of the Consular Section or at the Information Desk at the Embassy lobby (no photo needed)

Requirements for replacement of damaged passport:
1. Personal appearance
2. Original damaged passport
3. Affidavit of Damaged of passport
4. Duly accomplished passport application form (no photo needed)
 
Requirements for replacement of lost of passport:
1. Personal appearance
2. Police Report with English translation
3. Affidavit of Lost of passport
4. Duly accomplished passport application form (no photo needed)

(Note:  There is a 15 days waiting period before the approval of the passport application)

Requirements for newly born applicants for e-Passport:
1. Report of Birth form accomplished in 4 copies. (Form available at the Consular Section of the Embassy or the website)
2. Arabic and English temporary birth certificate and/or other supporting documents (e.g. Notification of Birth from the clinic/hospital where the child was born) – 3 copies
3. Marriage Contract of parents duly authenticated by the Department of Foreign Affairs, Manila (if married in the Philippines) or authenticated by the Saudi Ministry of Foreign Affairs with English translation (if married in KSA) – 3 copies
4. Photocopies of parents' passports (data page only) – 3 copies
5. Duly accomplished passport application form (no photo needed)

What to do on your appointment date

• Come to the Embassy at least 15 minutes before the appointment time.
• Proceed directly to the encoding Area for encoding
• After encoding, proceed to Window 6 (Cashier) for payment. 

Passport  Fees  

Renewal 
e-­‐Passport  SR  240.00 
Lost  Passport  

Green  or  MRP   SR  360.00  &  SR100  for  authentication 
e-­‐Passport          SR  600.00  &  SR  100  for  authentication 
Newborn  children  

Report  of  Birth   SR  100.00 
e-­‐Passport          SR  240.00   
 
How do I get my new passport?
 
• After 30 days after applying for your passport, you may check the Embassy website at www.philembassy-riyadh.org to find out if your passport has been received by the Embassy and is ready for release.  You may also call 482-3815, 482-3559 and 482-1577
 
Releasing of e-Passport (Window 3)
 
1. Releasing will be in the afternoon only from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm.
2. Bring the following: 
a. Original old passport
b. Official receipt
 
If you cannot appear personally to collect your new passport, you may authorize a representative and give him/her a signed letter of authorization stating your full name and the representative’s full name. 

Riyadh Living

We've been your lifestyle guide for 3 years now and we love doing this for all of you. Hopefully you get a lot of tips from us and we've made your life in Riyadh a little bit easier. Of course, we don't magically let information appear in our fingertips and blog about it. We have resources too for events, sales, restaurants, and happenings in Riyadh and we're sharing them with you today. We're not paid in making this list (we just wish, lol... just kidding). Here are some guides which can help you in living here in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia.

CITY GUIDES

ArRiyadh 

Everything about Riyadh... and KSA in general

It's all about Riyadh! Obviously... Lol. This website by the High Commission for the Development of ArRiyadh is very helpful in all aspects but it's mainly focused on tourism. They have the links to events and government ministries, information on tourism and sports and directory in their sidebar. And thank goodness, the website is in English! They have a pretty informative sidebar on the attractions found on the various regions in KSA. We usually visit this site just to get a glimpse of the tourist spots in other provinces... places which we can't visit as of now... like the Al-Wahba Crater in Makkah  or the Asir National Park  or the Relica of the Nabataean Empire in Tabuk.

Riyadh Events 

What are you doing for the weekend?

With that site name, you don't have to wonder what's in it for you when you visit. Riyadh Events lists down festivals and conferences in the city complete with their date, time, venue, and contact details... in English! Sometimes, we just visit the site to find out what festivals are celebrated in other places (because we're curious like that). Filipinos are not the only ones who celebrate feasts and festivals according to the region's products! For example, they're having a Honey Festival in Al-Baha and Summer Festivals in Najran, Al-Jawf, and Qassim. Who would've thought, right? If only we can visit each festival, then we're on our way! Now na!

Riyadhciti.com 

RiyadhCiti, a lifestyle magazine

This website is a lifestyle regional guide that delivers business and local events, courses, and lifestyle tips. They mostly focus on new happenings, launches, and news. Launched in 2009, this site is clean, sleek, and simple. We think that their main target readers are Saudis because most events featured are for them but it doesn't mean that expats cannot glean any info focused on them. There are a lot of tidbits for us too. So if you're interested in no-fuss reports on exhibits, conferences, and launchings of new products and services in Saudi Arabia, RiyadhCiti will point you to the right direction. They just don't update often but it's still worth bookmarking.

Riyadh Today 2011

We've featured Riyadh Today in this blog already. This handy book has everything too. So if you're not online most of the time but still wants to know every thing about Riyadh from directions, store contact numbers and basic information on Riyadh living, then this is the guide for you. Sundrenched likes to peruse the book once in a while. The directory and the shopping guide map prove valuable to her. For SR20, this book is sulit!

FOOD GUIDES

My Saudi Guides 

Yummy, yummy!

Indecisive on where to dine to next? Click on this site and you'll be lead to where you have to go. Though the site looks jumbled from all those letters and words in both English and Arabic, it has a good list of restaurants in the city with complete details and photos. They also have reviews and comments from diners so you'll have a grasp of how good (or bad) the resto is. We usually consult MSG when we want to eat in a new restaurant. They give first dibs on the newly-opened resto or bakeshop in the city. And if they do, we're there pronto! LOL. The Pink Tarha also contributes photos here. My Saudi Guides has a beauty guide called Oh La La Beauty but it's not as stocked as the Yummy Yummy Guide just yet.

Riyadh Eats 

An online restaurant guide

Still at its beta stage, Riyadh Eats is proving to be just as informative as its sister site Jeddahfood.com. We've been wishing for a Jeddahfood-like website for Riyadh and we're glad that the creators of Jeddahfood made our wish come true. They don't have many resto reviews yet but at full throttle, Riyadh Eats might just be as popular as its sister site. We love its simple yet elegant look. We like the concise yet substantial reviews and the photos used are eye-catching too. The site is giving away an iPad 2 at the end of the month. Click here for more details. 

DISCOUNT GUIDES

Cobone Riyadh 

Seal the deal!

Groupons have landed in Riyadh and Cobone is at the helm of this new deals phenomenon. Cobone features a daily market-focused deal on the best things to do, see, eat and buy in cities across the Middle East. We love the overall look of the site and everything is easy to understand. They have unleashed some really worthy deals from restaurants in Riyadh. Their first one was a lunch deal in Ketchup, which we think is worth it! There are current deals on Pane Piatto and Pizza Company. And if you're planning on having a vacation in Dammam and Jeddah or any major city in the Middle East then look for deals in their connecting sites too. Their Destinations deals are awesome and very tempting.

Balaash 

Deals, discounts, and freebies!

Balaash means FREE in Arabia so who wouldn't be amazed? No, they don't actually offer every thing for free but they make sure we get the best value for our money... and discounted at that! More sale coupons, woooot! Balaash provides specific sale alerts for specific items and brands in specific stores. So specific, right? Lol. So you don't even have to scout every newspaper or catalog in the city. You get to see them in Balaash's sites. Their discount deals and coupons are currently in their Facebook page but they also provide a link for to download coupons easier. Just print and present! We like their recent Al-Manahil Spa promo.

Burnt Deals KSA 

A gathering of deals and discounts in the city

This is somewhat new so we don't know what they're focused on. If our assessment is right, this site will gather all the best deals in the city daily and present them in the site. Let's stay tuned for more!

Okay, so that's it for now. We'll be coming up for a part two with Insider Guides this time. Hope you don't forget The Pink Tarha once you explore these sites, orayt? Happy living in Riyadh! :D

Q&A Portion 9

How was your Eid holiday? The Pink Tarha ladies went out a few times but spent most of our vacation at home. However, we completely ignored this blog because lounging around and doing almost nothing was easier. Hehe. Anyway, we're back! Hope you have your working and blogging mojo back too.

We received a few questions on where can you find certain products. Some of them we already have the answers (because we've encountered them in our mall detours) but some, we're clueless. We hope to get back to you on those.

1. Hi, my husband is now in Riyadh up to January. I am so desperate in finding size 11 flipflops here in Manila. Is there any store in Riyadh that sells this size? Thanks.

We usually see size 10/11 (that's what is written in their tags "10/11") in Ipanema and Havaianas here. Maybe this will fit you? Ask your husband to go and scour the shoe stores in Batha and Al-Akaria area. There are other flipflops/sandals brand out there. And tell him to do so asap. These particular size is hard to find. They're always the fastest to go OOS. Any chance of you joining him here? Do come! :)

2. Hi, I would like to appreciate you for a great job [in your blog]. Could you please tell me when does the next sale season or winter sale season start especially in Claire's and Centrepoint. Also, where can I find great, affordable handbags?

Thank you very much for liking our blog. The next huge sale is January 2011. A trickle of sale signs might be seen on the least week of December. You gotta save for this one! The Pink Tarha ladies love this particular sale season because discounts are huge! Also, you'll be able to scour autumn/winter items that you can use for the next seasons to come. Centrepoint, along with CityMax, usually has their sale earlier than the malls and you'll be seeing their sale ad in The Arab News. For affordable handbags, try New Look and Parfois (30% off now). If you're really on a stingy budget, try Souk Mubarak in Umalhamam and Haram Center in front of Kuwaiti souk.

3. Hi girls! I've been on the net for about an hour now just because I wanted to know if there's a place in Riyadh that carries Smashbox cosmetics. Then I figured, why not ask the Pink Tarha girls? So here I am. Btw, I love your blog.

Smashbox cosmetics can be found in Al-Sawani stores, particularly the one in Faisaliah Mall (S bought her Smashbox Photo Primer there). Enter at the gate in Olaya Street and to your right is the XOXO and United Colors of Benetton displays. Inside, you'll find a wide array of perfume and cosmetics counters. The Smashbox counter is towards the back near Benefit. Thank you for the blog lovin'. :)

4. Hi, maybe you girls can try and visit the ASEAN Bazaar at the Malaysian Embassy on the 9th of December? Entrance tickets is at SR5, which also entitles you to a raffle draw.

Thank you for the invite. We'd love to go! This is the first time we heard of a bazaar in Riyadh, and featuring ASEAN products at that. Very interesting.

5. Do you know where one can buy handmade things/clothes in Riyadh? Such as scarfs/shawls/pashminas, dresses...etc? Thanks.

We haven't heard of any indie/handmade businesses here. We get our scarfs and shawls from the usual commercial brands in the malls. Try Kuwaiti souk along King Fahd Road. And try going to the ASEAN bazaar at the Malaysian embassy (above). There might be unique finds there. :)

6. I'm just looking for some direction to "Eyes of Al-Seeh" when 'Mr.Google' topped your blog (which i should be thankful for). Thanks guyz/mare(s) for these very useful tips from you. Good luck mga kabayan... I love your blog ^__^V - Jeff

Wow, thanks for reading our blog, Jeff! We're not sure if we helped you with the directions to the Eyes of Al-Seeh because uh, S's entry on that one was about how they lost in going to it. Haha. She remembers though that you will have to take a right turn on a stoplight just after passing the tower (pictured in the entry) and before entering the town proper of Al-Kharj. That's how far she remembers it. After that is a mish-mash of U-turns and a dry water duct running through the middle of the road. Plus, the ice cream vans. :P (PS. The Pink Tarha are all girls. No doodz here.)

You know the drill, guys. If you have any questions, Ask The Pink Tarha!

How to Celebrate Father’s Day

Every year, we celebrate Father's Day. The third Sunday of June is spent commemorating fatherhood. I have some simple ideas and tips that will surely help us on how we can celebrate Father's Day and make our daddies, uncles, grandfathers, godfathers or even stepfathers feel that they are loved.

Tip #1. Greet him a "Happy Father's Day" early in the morning and once more before going to bed. Don't forget to say thank you for the love he gives and showers on you.

Tip #2. Make your dad happy on Father's day by saying this words "I LOVE YOU, Dad!" These simple words will make him feel loved. Wala nang tatalo pa sa mga katagang yan!

Tip #3. Hug Therapy (The power of touch). Hugs express all the love, respect and gratitude you feel in your heart and soul. So, open your arms wide and gives him your power hugs!

Tip #4. Indulge him with whatever food he likes. Treat your dad to his favorite restaurant and order his favorite dish. You can also bake the best chocolate cake for him.

Tip #5. Give him the essential gift of your time. Time is the most precious thing you can give this coming Father's day.

Tip #6. Go shopping with your daddy. Use your credit card or your cash and buy his favorite perfume and/or his desired brand of clothes. Treat him as he treats you.

Tip #7. Buy him a flower. Who says flowers are for ladies only? Red roses have been the traditional flowers for Father's day.

Tip #8. Take a bunch of photographs with your dad.

Again, Happy Father's Day to all fathers!

Trivia: Did you know that Father's day grew from one woman's tribute to her father whilst listening to a Mother's Day sermon in 1909? Sonora Louise Smart Dodd from Spokane, Washington, thought about this idea to honor her father as well as all the dads around the world.

Share in the comment box how you spent father's day. Any tips for us, too? Most of the PT ladies will go to dinner with our fathers. Now, where to go?! :)